In relationships, many of us are drawn to people who are different from ourselves — as the challenge can be very attractive. That is, until conflict arises, and many are left asking, “Who is this person and where did the one I first met go?” What initially draws us to each other can also become the thing that most frustrates us in the long-term (for example being drawn to someone who is laid back and relaxed, who in the future struggles to initiate plans or remember to get things done). This can be especially true for introvert-extrovert couples where each partner can have many opposing ways they interact with the world around them.