Why Echoism Makes Social Life So Difficult

Dating can be difficult for most people, but for an echoist, it can prove to be even more challenging. On the extreme opposite from narcissists—who seek admiration and special treatment, lack empathy, feel a sense of entitlement, and often react negatively to criticism—are echoists who fear being perceived as having any of those traits. In an effort not to seem narcissistic, echoists tend to overcorrect their thoughts and behaviors leading them to lack “healthy narcissism,” which is necessary for building confidence and confronting challenging or new situations found in dating. To find a quality partner, which we all deserve, there must be some level of self-focus, boundaries, and awareness of what you want and need, which for an echoist can be a struggle. The following traits and behaviors of echoism can directly impact dating: